#life #ethics #sprituality #forgiveness

So, when you know you have done something wrong to someone, at times you may think that that person, may feel bad, well then you say forgive me, I am sorry, but after hurting someone so badly, how can it be healed? If the person is strong enough he may look over and move on, as there is nothing stored in a bad past, but for you to feel good you need to seek forgiveness.

So, what is the process of forgiveness?

Saying — “I am sorry” would it work? Yes, the other person would think that you asked for forgiveness for your sins. And would feel nice to talk and maintain the relationship with you, rather than a cold atmosphere, the three little words “I am sorry” can be a real icebreaker. And the person who was hurted comes out flying~~~

But what about you — you may always feel guilty of doing something wrong if you have performed any of the following acts:

1. Wrong speech
2. Wrong attitude
3. Harming behaviors
4. Teasing others, eve teasing, or day teasing
5. ..many more

So, how would this agent who performs a wrong act heal, well saying “I am sorry, forgive me” would pacify the other actor. But the agent of wrong doing may feel bad throughtout life when he or she sees the second agent.

So, this can be forgotten, by one of the following ways,

1. See the other person in nice aura and believe you are forgiven,
2. Ask forgiveness from within, not just feel words that you spoke,
3. Burn the forgive me a candle in you — daily or weekly as you may find some time for,

There is a saying in hindi-urdu mix language saying-

“Shama Ko pighalne ka Armaan kyun hai, patengey koh jalney ka aarman kyu hain, essey shookh ka naam zindagi hain,”

Here, the song from YouTube shorts,

Shama Ko pighalne ka Armaan kyun hai

So, it says that forgiveness that you seek, is not in words you speak, its in feeling it, the way a candle melts, one day ones sin can melt as well,

So light a candle in your heart, seeking forgiveness of your wrong deeds, not just hurting someone else, as you dont know what is the activation level of being hurt by someone, for someone the hurt may not be sensitive even if you hosted 100% and for some even a mild noise may hurt them,

So forget about that, light a candle in your heart which says,

-You want to light a candle in your heart, a candle which you want to light each day, seeking to neutralize your bad deeds.

Speak these words, daily,

Karma is a science too,

Deeds is a maths too,

And forgiveness form the wall of deeds, is not a one day thing,

It must be felt deep within,

And just like Diwali diyas,

One day may be the sin evaporates in skies

Reach the golden wall,

Where bad karmas were send,

Its a sin to hurt him….

Its a sin to hurt her..

So light up one candle in your heart

No not in your room

A diya in you heart

And see the flames daily in imagination of this diya/candle

See how your bad deeds burn like a Ravana,

— — — —

Digital Diyas only for deeds action, save some green house effect,

So once again,

as said above,

Shama Ko pighalne ka Armaan kyun hai

It can be realted to even the bad and the good deeds want to burn like candle and mesmerize a balance in the charts of global warming,

Just 1 minute a day, close your eyes and see the deeds of not good kind burning, nothing else needed just a pure heart?

Can you purify your hearts now, as this is pollution too?

This a global warming of deeds as well?

No?

If no see here — this would be easy —

Creepy Flame — GIPHY Clips

Lets see if it works, it worked for me, would it work for you?? Who knows,

No harm in trying,

This way one can feel the need for prashatayap, means asking for deeds to be healed,

Who knows if it works,

It worked for me for sure,

Here Digital Diya one minute practice daily,

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References

[1] https://youtube.com/shorts/QGgOYqO6NVQ?si=AmZjOkcUY0VC_ldb

[2] Creepy Flame — GIPHY Clip