Note: These are authors own view.
So, you were in love and now suddenly you felt as if love is not enough, or love is missing its spark, or the most evident one, has love fallen off from two of us. Ok, then lets see this in the following questions,
Easy said than done, but lets see these questions and their answers:
How to figure it out? Is it breaking, does she not think of you enough? Or do you miss thinking of him? Are you asking more from her? Is she avoiding answering your love letters? She dont have that charisma now, or you are in beginning of love to another woman, now. Or is she seeing someone else?
Was it even love? Was there love between two of you? How was it? And how is it now, faded, and old love, was it bright? So better bring brightness back in life, rather than calling it to an end of relationship? Given you asking means, you still miss her/him.
If it was love, can we get the love back in our lives? If it was never love, then why worry? And if it was love, then why leave any stones unturned, just that give her space and time to come to you (& vice-versa for him). So how can love come back in life, remember the tone you used to speak with, just talk to her once like that, she would be the same woman you knew she was, lest we can try this. And for her — try, else you would loose your man, who would want to loose such a faithful man, who is annoyed by the very thought of loosing on love, but he needs to understand your needs as well.
Was it just infatuation? What was it just infatuation, you considered it love, you loved a woman/man but all that was between you was infatuation. No, not like that, this is not possible, everyone knows what infatuation is. So you raised the question he does not listen to you, he does not care for you, he does not care that you love certain things, well, all this is infatuation and love, the best sky-touching vibes they are. But a relationship is a totally different things, you need to start a relationship to understand love from a closer spectrum of lives colors,
Was it just passion? Is it passion, do you strive with each other as you feel high together, you enjoy things together, but are you in love? Means do you miss each other, you do, but she dont, (or vice-versa). Do you enjoy time together, but when back, you like to be on your own. Then its just friendship with passion of attraction of other kind..So in case you want to take your passionate friendship to one more step of love, then you must text each other, and feel what relationship was like, or you want an automated bot message — — no — right — -and she is busy — — — -so what can be done, when he is busy too?
But we moved into a relationship? So you both moved into a relationship, what you had was love, passion or infatuation, you now moved in a relationship. And you are wondering where is the love lost, well in case you didn’t waited for passion/infatuation to mature into love to enter a relationship, then I think this was the problem, let the love sprout over, let her wait to say you “i love you, my man” or let him see you and smile at you, and feel proud of your love story.
Now why is she/he ignoring him? Now is she ignoring him, well then I think she needs you to talk to her, or in other case she wants some time, give her some time. Is he ignoring her, women are weaker than men in these things, as far as I know, so if she gets sad after he stops talking to her, maybe he can learn to hear her, unless he wants to move out of relationship of love they had.
Or, may be why is he thinking this way? Why is he thinking that love is over, maybe he needs more of her, and somehow she can’t, and vice versa for why she thinks this way while he is just finding ways out to deal with life in the tough terrain of pains in love.
What should we do then? What should be done is both he and she should decide, if they both can go along together or if they both can call it off, and move on. Jelling together is more of a benifit as they both were in love once — -however if they both were in passion or infatuation alone, the roads may end with a small no, and if love covers their heads then one must know, the relationship may sprout again as it was once, but not guarantee, as people are free to decide their destinies, live now as ever as forever.
Time for calling a new sprouting love then, unless hope is struck back on her/him.
Thank you for reading.
To be continued….