And here comes the age of amalgamation of teenage and adulthood. The very sense of freedom gives delight, a sense of pride, and a sense of feeling the air breathing inside us. This zest remains in air around us for a while. If you are not the one who feels this pride, enlighten. It’s your hard work, don’t worry of what could had not been, but what it is a new era in your life’s adulthood. Oh, how was the day? A day to remember, of being called adult.
At the gateways of adulthood, is the license to work the way you want, a place to live on your own, work for your preferences, your own home, an agreement to marry the choice of person you want, starting a new family if you wish. Yes, the biggest happiness comes when you know you can shift to your own house, or rented house, whatever is the better said thing. There is a sense of happiness in word “adulthood” and that one is going to live on your own. There is no denying of it… Imagine your own home, your own rules, your own timings, what is more better that these words, that says, “your own life”. But all these comes with a price tag, the tag here is some kind of part time job, along with college degree, or a new business, or some collaboration, to mention a few.
These feelings of exhilaration don’t leave self for quite some time. Initially you may like to celebrate. If you don’t, then why you don’t, order a burger, if nothing else. Celebrations are part of life, it don’t need someone, just a cup of coffee would be suffice; a special cup of coffee with self, if no one else or with your near and dear ones if you may like. It all depends, every ones life has so many conditional if’s and but’s. Everyone life is unique, so not one rule can make it though everyone’s denotation.
Whilst you may be guided by ultimate time or worshiped higher powers in due course of your life, but the steering is in your hands. The higher self, guided by higher powers always provide options, we have to choose the choice we choose. This is all metaphysical aspect if you may like to understand from a deeper context, you may turn the flip of book to the said concepts. These concepts are relative and shall be explained later.
This phase where one step is in youth and other step has entered into adulthood is fascinating to understand, witness and cherish. Wonderful no? Joyful? See the joy in the child, see the happiness that shines on the cheeks. This kind of experience are encountered every time a new phase is entered in lives of people, another such enters when the adult attains is an educational degree(s), joins a full-time work, opens a business, starts its own consulting, starts some collaborations, make a life partner, enter a marriage, have a child, and so on.
This transitional period remains for quite a few days to quite a few months, the happiness sprout in that time. This is the time one should ask the young man/woman, what do you want to become. Not everyone knows what they want to become, while some are so ambitious as if they have framed the entire life with a plans others are blank, yet happy. It is not required to know the whole life path in start of the adulthood, but chalking out can be a good exercise. Unexpected halts do come in way, and for some undefined topple of plan do occur. But let’s hope for the best and think positive that is the law of attraction ways of working out- think positive.
To be continued….